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The chase stops here… | May 26, 2011

Thursday May 26th 2011 — he found the blog, yikes!

Dear XXXX,

Hope you are well. This email might come as a surprise to you but I had to send it out. It’s amazing what Google can do…like when i searched for your name (was planning on surprising you with something), lo and behold I come across your ‘Dating Blog’. I had to do a double take to make sure and comprehend what I was looking at and after pinching myself I understood the reality. Frankly I did not know how to react as I have never experienced anything like this before. I really wanted to talk to you about this in person but it seem like I make you fall asleep everytime so I decided to send this email.

I happen to read the latest entry about your thoughts on our dating experience and at first I was surprised and taken aback by some of the comments of your feelings based on your assumptions. My initial reaction was that I should be defending myself for my behavior in certain situations on our date last Friday night by clarifying a few of your interpretations of the events. But as I thought about it more and more I realized that you were pretty clear (100% positive) that you feel no chemistry towards me to which I have no control over and I decided not to push the issue.

 You are a beautiful, intelligent, warm and kind person who deserves nothing but the best. I felt connected with you right when I met you the first time and assumed the same of your feelings. I did mention on our date at Le Colonial that I am a very private person and there was something about you that made me feel so comfortable that I surprised myself in indulging information about my life so early on, but am glad that I did.

 It’s funny that I did have a feeling that you weren’t as interested as I was always chasing you and yet I continued to do so without any hesitation. Am I disappointed, yes, as running across a girl like you these days is like finding a needle in a haystack.You haven’t hurt my feelings or anything as I understand that this is a process. I also believe that one’s simplicity can be complicated for the other person. If I hurt your feelings in anyway or made you feel uncomfortable, I apologize.

 I know you need to move on as I hope you remember our conversation about time and how precious it is. Good luck with your dating experiences and Inshallah you will find what you are looking for one day.

 Thanks again chokri.